There's a lot of women on AM that are fake, etc. Don't just message any of them. I like to see if they hit my profile after I send them a wink. Be careful of collect messages too. If you think they are real send them a message back not via collect message, but new message, as you will get double credited. Be willing to communicate with them for a little while before asking to meet. I usually try to switch up to a chat app (Kik is popular). I generally meet them for a drink or lunch first. Some will fuck that day/night, but some like to see if there's physical attraction. I've had one go to the car after lunch and just want to make out first and stroke my cock, I also had one that gave me head in parking garage and wanted to fuck in my my front seat in broad daylight. I couldn't that as I didn't want to get caught for indecent exposure. I have fucked 50/50 first date . Many cum so quick when you first fuck them...it's unbelievable. So neglected they get eyeball rolling horny. Talk dirty...get aggressive, take over. It's awesome when it clicks.